Tuesday, September 29, 2009

The Apples Really DON'T Fall Far From the Tree

The apples really don't fall far from the tree....and to be honest with you I'm glad they don't! I have also heard that cliche' phrased like this, "rabbits make rabbits!" And that is SO true too! Open House is tonight at middle school, and we will meet various parents some for the first time and some we've met or talked to several times! =) However, I always leave events like these feeling enlightened and simply more aware of how my students came to be or are coming to be the individuals that they demonstrate each day.

I am sure as we delve into ourselves, we would all agree that we all have qualities about ourselves that we would love LOVE to change, and we all also have some really unique and wonderful characteristics. It is fun to watch these develop and unfold in the MIDDLE SCHOOL years. Many students come to mind when writing this blog, and usually after meeting their parents and/or hearing their stories suddenly those students make so much more sense to me.

I myself have so many inherited qualities that make me who I am, and I for one would not change any of them. So maybe I run a little late...all of the time. I got that from my grandma. So maybe I worry too much...I got that from my grandpa. So maybe I am an intellect who loves to learn new things...I got that from my mom. I could go on and on about the good and bad things about myself and try to think about teachers/peers/adults who may have had personalites which whom I did not click or vice versa, but in the end these qualities make me who I am.

So at the end of a long, sarcastic, quick-witted, funny, and exciting day of teaching MIDDLE SCHOOL, I am happy to go home to the kids that hopefully won't fall far from the tree either. If my own children have flaws that drive people crazy, then that's ok because I know that my children also have qualities they have inherited that make them so incredibly unique. When I was pregnant with my daughter, I literally said outloud, "I hope that she's way cooler than us!" And I was serious while I was saying it...to which my husband burst into laughter and made fun of me relentlessly! We were in hysterics for a while over this, only to realize that our daughter is the new and improved version of us. She has so many great qualities that are just like her parents, but she also has flaws. My son, who has since come along has inherited every bit of energy that we never remember having, while being the kindest, most loving and tender-hearted rambunctious little boy you have ever laid your eyes on. So in short (pun intended). I can't wait to hear all of the GOOD and BAD things my own children will do in school that make them who they are!

Check out these YouTube videos that remind me of my own kids!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QCLz2H6g6sg


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLS0Y40WwlA

3 comments:

  1. I was reminded of this when I was driving home from Open House, after writing this post, talking with my Papa...he reminded me of just how much alike we are (he and I), and I felt so proud to have not "fallen too far from the tree!" My Papa is the most amazing, sincere, and considerate man I have EVER met!

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